I really should entitle this: “Why I probably will never be married”. I have changed my on-line dating profiles so many times, tweaking it and trying to keep it under the word limitation. My words are frank- “I am not a bootie call”; to the point “”God is important to me”; and I thought self explanatory- “I am a Conservative. Unfortunately, men in their 60’s don’t fully comprehend the English language.
Is it that women out there are playing that childish game: Say one thing but mean another? That is not me and it is not my style.
The bottom line is this: I want a man of integrity who loves God, loves family and loves this country- the United States of America. Would I date a Democrat despite being a Conservative? Yes if he was an “old school” Moderate Democrat but these men are few and far between. Would I date a man of a different culture or race? Yes, as long as he believe the Bible from Genesis to Revelation and tried to live accordingly. I expect a man to be a leader who does not abuse a privilege. I expect a man to be a gentleman. I expect a man to have personal goals that do not include sitting on his retired buttocks until he dies.
I don’t think it fair to expect anyone to be in perfect health but I do believe we should try to live as healthy as we can. By the time we reach our 50’s we should realize that we may or may not have treated our bodies as they should have been treated and try to make as many adjustments as possible which would include eating healthier.
Is it to much to ask that a man be self-confident and not self-centered? How old do you have to be to know that there are women who mean no when she says “no”?
To be fair, I have met a few men of good character and by mutual agreement we realized we were not a good match.
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