Many women think they know how to find a husband. That is the first mistake. Scripture teaches a man finds a wife.

Proverbs 18:22 (KJV)
22 Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.

It takes time for a demonically influenced individual to reveal his true nature but there are clues, we, women just don’t see them. My top advice to women, of any age, DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM until you are married; nor any variation thereof. That is if you want to do things God’s way. This woman thought she had a godly man but hindsight we all see some things in the narrative that should have been clues.
This is a subject I will revisit. I survived an abusive marriage.