I used to be a name follower now I just follow the Word, the Word became flesh and dwelt among us (John 1:14). It is not a “female” thing, or a “Black” thing nor a “Black woman” thing; it is not about titles either.
One is too many and there are more people than one that are following individuals thinking they are the key to blessings. We are all temples (1 Corinthians 3:16) and the spiritual heads of our households. (Revelation 1:5-6). If Jesus is Lord of your life then allow Him to have lordship over your life and think about who you are listening to and respond accordingly.

Acts 17:10-12 (KJV)
10 And the brethren immediately sent away Paul and Silas by night unto Berea: who coming thither went into the synagogue of the Jews.
11 These were more noble than those in Thessalonica, in that they received the word with all readiness of mind, and searched the scriptures daily, whether those things were so.
12 Therefore many of them believed; also of honourable women which were Greeks, and of men, not a few.

John 1:14 (KJV)
14 And the Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us, (and we beheld his glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father,) full of grace and truth.

1 Corinthians 3:16 (KJV)
16 Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you?
Revelation 1:5-6 (KJV)
5 And from Jesus Christ, who is the faithful witness, and the first begotten of the dead, and the prince of the kings of the earth. Unto him that loved us, and washed us from our sins in his own blood,
6 And hath made us kings and priests unto God and his Father; to him be glory and dominion for ever and ever. Amen.